FIX(redis): use customConfig for maxmemory

- extraArgs was not being applied to Redis container
- Use customConfig which is the correct way to set Redis directives
- maxmemory 800mb with allkeys-lru policy

falco/helm-values.yaml

@@ -174,10 +174,10 @@ falcosidekick:
           cpu: 10m
           memory: 256Mi
         limits:
-          memory: 1Gi  # Increased from 512Mi to prevent OOM (84 restarts)
+          memory: 1Gi
-      extraArgs:
+      customConfig:
-        - "--maxmemory 800mb"
+        - maxmemory 800mb
-        - "--maxmemory-policy allkeys-lru"
+        - maxmemory-policy allkeys-lru
 
     # Authentication disabled - using Authelia SSO
     # existingSecret: falco-ui-secret