REFACTOR(repo): standardize taint to control-plane

- Change node-role.kubernetes.io/master to control-plane
- Update vpa, goldilocks, kube-state-metrics tolerations
- Remove deprecated master taint from promtail

kube-state-metrics/helm-values.yaml

@@ -14,14 +14,14 @@ resources:
   limits:
     memory: 150Mi
 
-# Schedule on master node
+# Schedule on control-plane node
 nodeSelector:
-  node-role.kubernetes.io/master: "true"
+  node-role.kubernetes.io/control-plane: "true"
 
 tolerations:
-  - key: node-role.kubernetes.io/master
+  - key: node-role.kubernetes.io/control-plane
     operator: Exists
-    effect: NoExecute
+    effect: NoSchedule
 
 service:
   type: ClusterIP